Children are priceless gifts from God to every family. Families who are yet to be blessed with the gift of children, tend to panic, feel sad and some times get discouraged. But we can all attest to the fact that raising these beautiful and expensive gifts right, requires a lot of hard work. The formative stage of children happens to be the most critical stage, because that is the stage where they need all the trainings and discipline they can get, if they get poor trainings from their parents, it sticks with them and they grow up that way. That is why it is paramount that parents who are Christ’s followers train their children in the way of the Lord. Parents needs to be physically, emotionally, spiritually and financially fit so as to raise godly children who will not depart from the ways of the Lord when they are old. Join us in this blog as we explore some important Bible verses that will guild us on how to raise godly children in this era.
One of the ways to raise children right is by setting godly example as parents, for we know that children learn first from home. Another way is by constantly correcting and discipling them when they go the wrong way. As Christian parents we have to make sure that our children are raised godly in this ungodly world. Christian parents are to teach their children what they need to know, especially things about God and his kingdom, that way it becomes easy for them to listen and obey God. One vital practice that cannot be missed in Christian parenting, is consistently seeking help from God.
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What Does The Bible Say About Training Up A Child?
There is no better source of information for Christian parenting other than the Bible. The Bible is the greatest book that has lots of great instructions, guidance and blessings embedded in it. Firstly, the scriptures clearly stated in the book of Psalm 127:3 that “Children are a heritage from the Lord, offspring a reward from him.” This is an indication that children come from the Lord, and at that we have to train and maintain these children for the one who gave them to us.
Deuteronomy 6:5-7 “You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might. And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise.” In this passage, the Bible passes a message to us on how to bring up our kids. Most importantly, as parents, we have to love God with all our heart and soul, obey his instructions and then diligently pass these practice onto our children.
The Bible also highlights that parents should not provoke their children to anger, but rather bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord “Ephesians 6:4.”
Bible Verses About Training Up A Child
- Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it. – Proverbs 22:6
- Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord. – Ephesians 6:4
- These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. – Deuteronomy 6:6-7
- Children are a heritage from the Lord, offspring a reward from him. – Psalm 127:3
- Fathers, do not embitter your children, or they will become discouraged. – Colossians 3:21
- Discipline your children, and they will give you peace; they will bring you the delights you desire. – Proverbs 29:17
- And how from infancy you have known the Holy Scriptures, which are able to make you wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus. – 2 Timothy 3:15
- In everything set them an example by doing what is good. In your teaching show integrity, seriousness and soundness of speech that cannot be condemned, so that those who oppose you may be ashamed because they have nothing bad to say about us. – Titus 2:7-8
- Listen, my son, to your father’s instruction and do not forsake your mother’s teaching. They are a garland to grace your head and a chain to adorn your neck. – Proverbs 1:8-9
- Jesus said, ‘Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these. – Matthew 19:14
- All your children shall be taught by the Lord, and great shall be the peace of your children. – Isaiah 54:13
- We will not hide them from their descendants; we will tell the next generation the praiseworthy deeds of the LORD, his power, and the wonders he has done. – Psalm 78:4
- And Joshua set up at Gilgal the twelve stones they had taken out of the Jordan… He did this so that all the peoples of the earth might know that the hand of the LORD is powerful and so that you might always fear the LORD your God. – Joshua 4:20-24
- Moreover, we have all had human fathers who disciplined us and we respected them for it… No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it. – Hebrews 12:9-11
- Don’t let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith, and in purity. – 1 Timothy 4:12
- Listen, my sons, to a father’s instruction… Get wisdom, get understanding; do not forget my words or turn away from them. – Proverbs 4:1-4
- Josiah was eight years old when he became king… In the eighth year of his reign, while he was still young, he began to seek the God of his ancestor David. – 2 Chronicles 34:1-3
- And the boy Samuel continued to grow in stature and in favor with the LORD and with people. – 1 Samuel 2:26
- When Jesus saw this, he was indignant. He said to them, ‘Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these. – Mark 10:14
- My son, do not forget my teaching, but keep my commands in your heart, for they will prolong your life many years and bring you peace and prosperity. – Proverbs 3:1-2
- In the same way, you who are younger, submit yourselves to your elders. All of you, clothe yourselves with humility toward one another, because, ’God opposes the proud but shows favor to the humble. – 1 Peter 5:5
- Teach them to your children, talking about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. – Deuteronomy 11:19
- Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will. – Romans 12:2
- Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me—put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you. – Philippians 4:9
- When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. – 1 Corinthians 13:11
- Do not withhold discipline from a child; if you punish them with the rod, they will not die. Punish them with the rod and save them from death. – Proverbs 23:13-14
- My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires. – James 1:19-20
- And Jesus grew in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and man. – Luke 2:52
- I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth. – 3 John 1:4
- For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well. – Psalm 139:13-14
- Behold, children are a heritage from the LORD, the fruit of the womb a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior are the children of one’s youth. Blessed is the man who fills his quiver with them! He shall not be put to shame when he speaks with his enemies in the gate. – Psalm 127:3–5
- Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. “Honor your father and mother, this is the first commandment with a promise, that it may go well with you and that you may live long in the land. Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord. – Ephesians 6:1–4
- You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might. And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. – Deuteronomy 6:5–7
- As a father shows compassion to his children, so the LORD shows compassion to those who fear him. – Psalm 103:13
- Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long in the land that the LORD your God is giving you. – Exodus 20:12
- Whoever spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him is diligent to discipline him. – Proverbs 13:24
- My son, keep your father’s commandment, and forsake not your mother’s teaching. Bind them on your heart always; tie them around your neck. When you walk, they will lead you; when you lie down, they will watch over you; and when you awake, they will talk with you. – Proverbs 6:20-22
- The rod and reproof give wisdom, but a child left to himself brings shame to his mother. – Proverbs 29:15
- Folly is bound up in the heart of a child, but the rod of discipline drives it far from him. – Proverbs 22:15
- Even a child makes himself known by his acts, by whether his conduct is pure and upright. – Proverbs 20:11